Suicidal Talk in Children

A child may want to discuss suicide for many reasons, and not all of them are immediately dangerous. It could be a cry for attention or a way to punish a parent. Suicidal talk can also be a warning sign of severe depression. Children are as capable as adults of becoming overwhelmed with negative thoughts and emotions. Although very young children are not as likely as teens or adults to act on suicidal thoughts and urges, talk of self-harm should never be ignored.

Signs of Depression

• According to Families for Depression Awareness, a depressed child may exhibit symptoms of persistent fatigue, behavior problems, difficulty concentrating on schoolwork, lack of motivation and self-harm. Withdrawal from family and friends may also be a warning sign.

Statistics

• Successful suicide attempts are rare in children under the age of 10. According to Mary H. Sarafolean, Ph.D, only 2 percent of children in this age category are depressed. The risk of depression and suicide both increase during adolescence. Sarafolean also states that 8 percent of adolescents will attempt suicide at some point.

Risk Factors

• According to Families for Depression Awareness, a family history of mental disorders such as bipolar disorder puts children at a higher risk for developing clinical depression.

  The Centre for Suicide Prevention lists other factors that may contribute to suicidal behavior in children, including poor social adjustment, chronic illness and a history of abuse.

Prevention

• Ask questions of children exhibiting signs of depression. Try to connect with them. Simple questions like "How was your day?" and "What are you thinking about?" may bring an emotionally distant child closer. They need to know that their thoughts, feelings and actions are of interest to their loved ones. Parents can make a difference by getting to know their children better.

  Not all depressive symptoms can be solved by increased attentiveness on the part of a caregiver. Sometimes depression is a symptom of other mental disorders. When in doubt, ask a mental health professional for help.

Getting Help

• There are many ways to get help for a child who seems preoccupied with suicidal thoughts. Suicide Awareness Voices of Education (SAVE) can be reached for emergencies 24 hours a day and seven days a week at [phone].

  The Kristin Brooks Hope Center also offers support in the form of a suicide hotline. A counselor can be reached anytime by calling [phone].

  Anyone in immediate danger of harming himself should be taken to the nearest emergency room to be closely monitored by a professional.