How to Help a Friend Cope with Cancer Treatments

Coping with cancer treatments can be both physically and emotionally draining, but having the support of friends can help. Sometimes friends seem to disappear when things get tough because they don't know what to do, but simply being there and pitching in can mean the world to a friend who is dealing with the effects of cancer treatment. Whether you escort your friend to her appointments or surprise her with a pre-cooked meal or movies, your presence can help alleviate stress and fear.

Things You'll Need

• Books on cancer therapy
• Transportation
• Casseroles
• Comedy movies
• Toiletry items

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Instructions

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  Read up on it. Learn everything you can about the kind of cancer your friend has, its symptoms, and the effects of cancer treatments. Knowing what to expect and sharing information can help ease fear and provide your friend with information she may have missed during her doctor's or treatment appointments.

• 2

  Go to appointments with your friend whenever possible. Having a friend to chat with while receiving treatments can help keep spirits up and show your unconditional support and love. Even if your friend doesn't feel up to talking, holding his hand will be appreciated.

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  Help out with meals on chemotherapy or radiation treatment days. Make a casserole, soup, or other food, or pick up some pizzas for your friend and their family on treatment days so the chore is taken care of and your friend can rest instead of worrying about meal preparation.

• 4

  Have a hat and wig party. Cheer your friend by having a party with close friends to celebrate a new look in a positive manner. Ask guests to bring fun hats or wigs to share with your friend that she can wear if her hair falls out. Toast to your friend's bravery and a healthy new start.

• 5

  Create a funny movie gift basket and share in the entertainment. Laughter is truly the best medicine, and a few comedy DVDs can help cheer your friend when he is feeling low. Pick up favorite titles or classic comedies and pop up the corn to enjoy them together.

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  Be there. Call or visit regularly to chat. Keep topics light and don't focus on negative news. Make plans for the future and talk about uplifting events and goals. Bring along a book of conversation starters to spark the discussion.

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  Make a personalized "Do Not Disturb" sign. Decorate a blank sign you pick up at a hobby shop, or simply design one on paper and laminate it. Use funny photos from the past or draw bright flowers. Put it together in a gift basket filled with bath beads, lotions, and a sleeping mask to help your friend pamper herself after treatments.