How to Set Consequences for Children With Autism

Parents of children with autism may find it especially frustrating when dealing with matters of discipline. You may want to coddle your child and make things especially easy, but an autistic child will actually benefit from clear consequences that give him boundaries for behavior.

Instructions

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  Stick to a routine. Children with autism can thrive when they have a clear schedule each day instead of open-ended time.

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  Let the child know in advance what is expected and what the consequence swill be for completing the task or not completing the task. Remember to praise more than criticize.

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  Follow up with the child to make sure they are doing what they are supposed to do. If they fail to follow through, allow them to see the natural consequences of their actions. For example, failing to bring their dirty clothes to the laundry room could mean not having any clean clothes to wear.

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  Use social stories to demonstrate a point or an issue with the child. Comic strips can also show a child with autism about the finer points of making conversation.

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  Stick to short one or two step directions instead of multiple step directions. That way they can be successful and gain confidence. Take notice when your child has done something well.

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  Use picture cues with a low-functioning child or written lists to help them remember what they are supposed to do.

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  Realize that using "time out" for a child with autism may backfire, as he may consider that to be a treat. Instead, taking away a treasured toy or not allowing him to do a favorite activity may be more effective.