How to Tell a Child He Has Autism

Autism, and the related Asperger's Syndrome, is a health issue that usually requires everyone in the family to develop coping skills. One issue that comes up in families with autistic children is the delicate subject of how to tell a child he has autism. Many parents of autistic children agree that telling is best. However, there are some important steps to follow. Read on to learn how to tell a child he has autism.

Things You'll Need

• Age-appropriate discussion prepared
• Diagnosis of autism

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Instructions

Decide How to Tell Your Child That He Has Autism

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  Take your child's age into consideration when telling her. Consider the degree to which she is displaying signs of autistic behavior as well. Helpful words for almost any age group are "different" and "special."

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  Point out the health issues of others in the family, such as mommy's hurt back and Bobby's asthma. Tell your child that he has a condition as well, which will need special care.

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  Tell the child in comfortable surroundings, such as when she is in her bed for the evening. The comfortable surroundings can make the whole process less disruptive to a child who already appreciates and needs consistency and routine.

Have a Strategy in Place

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  Keep a list of the professionals you have contacted (special needs teachers at school, occupational therapists and similar individuals) when you tell your child that he as this condition. This way, you are saying that he is special rather than simply different. These professionals may be able to lend their assistance to driving this point home.

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  Check out library books about autism that are written just for kids. Go to your local library and ask to speak to the children's librarian.

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  Talk about the fact that autism can give a person strength, as well as weakness, in certain areas. Some strengths that have been seen in autistic people include increased aptitude for math, art and visual-spatial understanding. Parents will usually know where an autistic child shows increased ability, and this can help you to keep your autism discussion positive.