How to Tell Someone You Have a Brain Tumor

When someone in the family receives the diagnosis of a brain tumor, it changes the entire family dynamics. In most cases, family members are very much aware that there are changes in the mental and physical condition of the patient. As hard as it is to hear the diagnosis of a brain tumor, it can actually be a relief to know what is causing the changes.

Instructions

Share Your Diagnosis With Family and Friends

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  Talk to someone in your family about your concerns. Sometimes it is easier to tell only one or two family members or friends that you have a brain tumor. By disclosing your diagnosis, the door is open for those who love you the most to give you the support you need for the recovery process.

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  Ask your doctor to talk to your spouse, children or whomever you choose. She can give the information in an unemotional setting and answer any questions that may arise. The more those around you can understand about your disease, the better they will be able to help you through the healing process.

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  Tell your primary caregiver everything. Communication is vital between you and the one who will be most responsible for your care during the treatment and recovery process. Communication directly affects the coping ability of both the patient and the caregiver.

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  Make your wishes clearly known to someone you trust to honor your desires. If you don't have an Advanced Directive filled out and signed, do so immediately, and give your caregiver a copy. You can choose what kind of life-support you want to receive should it become necessary for survival.

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  Discuss the possibilities of outcome with your family. An open expression of fears and concerns is a way to reduce the stress within a family. Allow family and friends to be a shoulder to lean on during this difficult time. If you're not comfortable talking openly to your family, seek the help of a counselor, minister or someone else you can tell your innermost concerns.