What should you do about your verbally abusive and emotionally attached extremely clingy controlling girlfriend who has threatened suicide in the past?

1. Stay safe.

If you feel that you

are in immediate danger, call 911 or your local emergency number. You can

also go to a local emergency room or mental health facility.

2. Set boundaries.

It's important to

set clear boundaries with your girlfriend about what you will and will not

tolerate. For example, you may not tolerate being yelled at or called

names. If your girlfriend crosses one of your boundaries, you have the right

to walk away or end the relationship.

**3. Encourage

her to seek professional help.**

Your girlfriend's behavior may be a sign of a mental health condition, such as borderline personality disorder or depression. Encourage her to see a therapist or counselor.

**4. Take

care of yourself.**

It's important to take care of yourself both physically and mentally when you're in a relationship with someone who is abusive. Make sure you're getting enough sleep, eating healthy foods, and exercising. Talk to friends and family about what you're going through.

5. Consider ending the relationship.

If

your girlfriend's behavior doesn't improve, you may need to consider

ending the relationship. This is a difficult decision, but it may be the

best thing for you.

Remember, you are not alone. There are resources available to help you. You can call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or chat with someone online at The Hotline's website.