How Anxiety & Depression in Parents Affects Children

According to the National Research Council and the Institute of Medicine, an estimated 7.5 million parents are depressed in the U.S. and 15 million children live with a parent who is depressed. Despite the resilience of children, depression and severe anxiety affect their social and psychological development. The extent of these effects is largely dependent on the child's age during the depression.

Signs and Symptoms

• Symptoms of depression and anxiety include extended periods of sadness, fatigue, increased agitation, changes in sleep and appetite, withdrawal and lack of pleasure in previous interests.

Babies

• Depressed parents with babies have a particularly difficult time forming a bond and nurturing their child. Their withdrawal makes them less likely to engage and play with their child, which has a severe effect on how their baby engages others. According to Parent.com, babies deprived of this bond and interactions are more likely to be anxious, fearful and unresponsive to others.

Young Children

• Depressed and anxious parents are easily frustrated and less likely to challenge and nurture the intellectual development of their children. The National Institute of Child Health and Human Development found that problem-solving skills and maintaining an even temperament is difficult for these children.

Preteens and Teenagers

• Depressed or anxious parents are more likely to be both withdrawn from their children and more critical. Failing to encourage academic success, coordinate extracurriculars and nurture the child's social relationships can result in poor social skills, unhappiness, low self-esteem, stress and an increased risk of depression.

Overcoming Depression and Anxiety

• Seeking medical treatment for depression and anxiety, maintaining a strong social support system and talking to children about the problem can all reduce the harmful consequences of these conditions.