How to Assist a Physically Disabled Person

Society is starting to realize that people with disabilities are not helpless. They are able to do most, and many cases all, activities that people without disabilities can. You may be concerned and wondering how or if you should help someone with an obvious physical disability. There are times when we all need help, regardless of our capabilities. Read on to learn how to assist a physically disabled person.

Instructions

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  Volunteer your assistance if the person seems to be having a difficult time. Don't be offended if your offer is declined. Get permission before you move a person's mobility aid, including wheelchairs, canes or crutches.

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  Ask the person if they need assistance, then wait for their answer. Listen to the instructions they give or ask for the appropriate instructions. If you don't understand the directions, ask for clarification.

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  Relax. If you're not sure what to do, let the person you're helping help you. Be respectful and courteous when interacting with people who have a physical disability. Handle equipment and devices carefully.

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  Sit at eye level, if possible, when you are talking to a person in a wheel chair for an extended period of time. Refrain from leaning on the wheelchair or other device. Avoid patting a person on the head or shoulder, or any other patronizing act. Treat adults like adults.

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  Address the person directly, even if they are accompanied by someone else. Speak in a voice and tone that you use with anyone else. You may be curious about the reason they are using a wheelchair or other mobility aid, and if the subject comes up naturally in a conversation that is fine.

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  Refrain from asking questions unless it is relevant to the conversation. If you use a phrase like, "I've got to run" or something similar, don't worry. People with disabilities often use these same phrases. It's a figure of speech. Don't beat yourself up about it.

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  Avoid making assumptions about the individual's capabilities. They are the best judge of what they can and can't do.

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  Allow extra time for the person to answer the door or the telephone when you call on them. If you invite a person with a disability to do something with you, call ahead to the location and check that accommodations are available for them.