How to Confront Drug Abuse

Having a loved one that is addicted to drugs is a very challenging situation indeed and learning how to deal with and confront the problem poses yet another problem. The first thing that you have to consider is whether this person knows that they have an issue with substance abuse. Many addicts do not recognize that they have a problem, and this may change the way that you confront this very touchy issue.

Instructions

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  Think about what you want to say before you say it. It is important to have a plan of action as far as what the points are that you want to get across to your loved one. This will be an emotional time and the situation will already be hard enough without being confused or at a loss for words. You may want to write a letter and read it to your loved one. Be prepared.

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  Be realistic about how things may go. Confrontations about drug abuse are not always like a fairy tale; there may not be hugs, kisses, thank yous and happily ever afters. Be prepared to be yelled at, maybe even cursed out. There may be an argument, denial, or even plain out defiance. Addicts aren't always ready to deal with the problems that they are having, and keep in mind that they may not even realize that they are addicted. It is always important to remember that substance abuse is often a symptom of a larger problem.

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  Offer solutions or alternatives. You can't just ask someone to stop using. Be ready with the next step, be it rehab, detox, inpatient or outpatient counseling. There are many venues to get help out there. The same methods or types of treatment do not work for everyone. It may also be a good idea to consult with a counselor before confronting your loved one.