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The Effects of Alcohol on Relationships

Alcohol abuse can lead to health, financial and relationship problems. Many of these problems may not seem obvious initially but become increasingly apparent as alcohol abuse continues. According to the National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism, 21 percent of Americans experienced at least one alcohol-related problem in 2002. Common relationship strains resulting from alcohol abuse include the continual use of money for alcohol, drunkenness, time spent drinking and changes in personality over time.

  1. Financial Strain

    • Alcohol can be expensive, especially if it becomes a priority. Purchasing alcohol can put a strain on your budget and relationship if you are in a relationship where finances are shared. Family members of alcohol abusers are likely to feel obligated to cover up for them; this includes working for extra money to cover alcohol expenses. A 2004 World Health Organization study found heavy drinkers are more likely to to miss work, have increased medical expenses (due to drinking-related health problems) and have fewer employment opportunities.

    Intoxication

    • Excessive alcohol consumption leads to intoxication, which affects judgment and motor skills. While many couples enjoy drinking socially, it can become a problem if one or both partners habitually get drunk. Intoxicated individuals may become overly sensitive, argumentative or behave in undesirable ways toward their partners. According to researchers at the University of Minnesota, intoxicated persons may be more likely to act abusively toward others. These changes in behavior can lead to dissatisfaction and an unhealthy relationship.

    Less Time Together

    • The time it takes to purchase alcohol, drink it and sober up can add up. Many people drink alone or at a bar, meaning less time spent with a partner. According to Helpguide.org, many alcohol abusers spend less time engaging in social activities than non-abusers. A 2004 World Health Organization found 28.5 percent of families believed alcohol abuse resulted in mental abuse and neglect.

    Personality Changes

    • Over time, alcohol abuse can lead to changes in an individual's personality, including increased irritability, depression and anxiety. According to the National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism, alcohol abuse can cause brain damage over an extended period of time. Wernicke-Korsakoff Syndrome primarily affects alcoholics and causes symptoms such as chronic mental confusion. These changes can be discouraging to a partner, as the abuser is no longer the same person he was early in the relationship.

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