Child Behavior Modification Techniques

A child who screams, argues, becomes abusive or is generally noncompliant may be acting out inappropriately and this negative behavior may harm a family in many ways. Persistent behaviors that worsen over time should be evaluated by a physician or a psychologist. Recognizing behavior problems early is an important step in steering your child toward more appropriate behavior. Rewarding your child's good behaviors is vital to teach children how to overcome inappropriate behaviors.

Communication

• Learn why your child may be acting out inappropriately. Talk to your child and tell him his behavior is not appropriate. While talking to your child, remain calm and try to react in a consistent manner each time. Do not recap bad behavior. Instead, discuss appropriate behavior as well as potential consequences for continued negative behavior. Encourage your child to try to amend his behavior on his own and congratulate improved behavior.

Motivators

• When you begin to recognize behaviors, try to be one step ahead and discuss motivators with your child. For example, if your child acts out in public, before taking him out discuss a reward for good behavior. Try to be positive rather than punitive. Use encouragement to increase a child's self-esteem. Do not mix rewards with punishments, this will only confuse the child.

Consequences

• Ignore the behavior. If the behaviors do not cease, give a warning for a time-out. If a time-out is warranted, provide it in a low-stimulating but safe environment. Set a time limit for time-outs and stay within reasonable proximity to your child. For long-term and very aggressive behavioral issues, consider family therapy.