How to Cope with a Developmentally Delayed Child

Dealing with a developmentally delayed child can be very challenging and exasperating. It's often hard to determine how to deal with the child in a way that ensures he's getting what he needs. But dealing with a developmentally delayed child can also be very rewarding. The goal of this article is to examine the best ways to help this kind of child--as well as you, the caregiver--thrive and flourish.

Instructions

Instructions

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  Work with the child's doctor and social workers. It's important to work with the child's doctor and social workers or case workers to be sure she is getting what she needs. The doctor will have important information and insight regarding any treatment for symptoms and making the child more comfortable. This is especially true if the child is on some type of medication.

  By communicating and keeping case workers informed, they can direct you to resources that will benefit both you and your child. Try not to miss appointments with them or with other professionals who are trained to help. Be sure the child is taking his medication properly, eating a balanced diet and having regular checkups so that you can circumvent problems relevant to those aspects of his care.

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  Create a routine for the child so that she knows what to expect. Establishing a daily routine will help the child feel more secure and less anxious. Have breakfast at the same time every day. Schedule playtime and learning time at the same hour each day. Leave room in your schedule for appointments, but keep everyday events as routine as possible.

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  Make time for yourself. Dealing with a developmentally challenged child is not only frustrating at times, it's also tiring. It's okay to admit that you need a break. Have a trusted adult care for the child while you take time out to do something you enjoy. By ensuring that you're rested and taking regular breaks, you can return to caring for the child with renewed drive and determination.

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  Network with other parents and caregivers. Find support groups and other parents who are also dealing with developmentally delayed children. Networking will help you find answers and get tips and suggestions for making your life and your child's life easier. You can benefit from the lessons learned and the experience of the other parents. Your child may also enjoy interacting with individuals he can identify with.

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  Learn stress-reducing techniques. By applying stress-reducing techniques throughout your day, you can alleviate some of the frustration and distress you may feel. Learn about the benefits of deep breathing, aromatherapy, meditation and yoga. Check out relaxation techniques that you can employ easily during the day, since you most likely don't have a lot of time to yourself.