How to Celebrate the Death of a Loved One

When a loved one passes away, the resulting grief can overwhelm the strongest person. Even when death is expected, dealing with the sadness and adjusting to the loss of the family member or dear friend takes time. You can celebrate the death of a loved one, both at the memorial or funeral service and in the months and years to follow. Several tips to honor your family member or friend will help you remember and celebrate his life.

Instructions

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  Release balloons. While this traditional event may seem trite, the symbolism of the act effectively helps people release the loved one at the memorial service. A similar act involves releasing butterflies. Butterflies symbolize spring and new life, a celebration of the loved one. If you believe in heaven, this can symbolize her transition to the afterlife.

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  Light candles, held by each attendee at the service, and blow them out. As each person lights a candle, they can honor the loved one and remember him and the way he contributed to the life of each person present at the memorial service.

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  Ask people to share at the memorial service. Special tributes to the loved one help others who did not know her as well reflect on her life.

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  Sing his favorite song as a group, play it on a CD or have a singer perform it. Share reasons why the song was his favorite. If he did not have a favorite song, choose one that held special memories for him, and explain why he enjoyed that song.

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  Make a contribution of some type in the name of your loved one. Whether it is a cash donation to a favorite charity, sports equipment, books or other material possessions, the act of donating helps you feel connected to your loved one.

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  Display photographs as a collage or memory board. People enjoy looking at pictures of the loved one at special events and in their daily environment.