How to Make Preparations for the Care of Elderly or Disabled Parents

There comes a time for many people when they need to decide the best way to care for their elderly or disabled parents. Alzheimer's, dementia and senility can all affect the judgment and mental faculties, and physical disabilities or degeneration can limit movement. The level of care your parent needs will depend on his or her overall health and mental ability, as well as the condition of finances.

Instructions

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  Determine the type of care needed. The type and duration of care will depend on each individual's situation. Assess you're parent's physical, mental and financial condition, talking to doctors and lawyers if necessary to get the full picture. You'll need to know exactly what you're dealing with to determine the best course of action.

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  Discuss the changes with your parent. Accepting help can be a confusing and embarrassing for your parent. Although talking about it will be difficult as well, talking will ease the transition and give your parent the opportunity to have some input.

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  Explore appropriate living arrangements. There are a variety of facilities available to care for elderly people from active adult communities and adult daycare to assisted living facilities and nursing homes. The best solution for your parent will depend on the level of help he or she will require as well as the financial situation. Alternatives to these facilities include having a parent move in with you if there is room available, or hiring in-home nurses or companions, which will allow your parent to remain at home.

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  Obtain power of attorney. Power of attorney authorizes you to speak and make decisions on your parent's behalf. This often becomes necessary if a parent needs to be institutionalized against his or her will or is suffering from mental disorders and is not capable of making decisions. It is important to discuss this step with your parent and make it clear that you are acting in his or her best interest. This can be difficult to convey to parents with dementia or Alzheimer's.

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  Watch for signs of neglect or abuse. Nursing homes and other facilities that provide care to told people are notorious for abuse and neglect. Keep an eye out for warning signs, including sudden weight loss, bedsores or broken bones. Before selecting a facility, be sure to research it to confirm it has not gotten citations for abuse or neglect, and check for signs each time you visit.

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  Be aware of the strain this can cause to your family. Caring for an elderly parent can put additional strain on your family, especially in extreme conditions where your parent is unruly and difficult to control. Be cognizant of this possibility and do your best to prevent it.