How to Confront You Child After She Is Caught Drinking?

It can be a rewarding -- although very challenging -- experience raising a child, especially during the typically rebellious teen years. Throughout the teen years, the chance of exposure to parties and alcohol can increase with each year. When a child is caught drinking, talk with the teen about the dangers of alcohol consumption, especially at such a young age. Proper confrontation is vital in order to help the child understand and consider your concerns.

Instructions

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  Talk with your spouse and come to an agreement on the repercussions of the child's drinking. It's important for both parents to have the same standpoint on the issue before the confrontation. All parents have different views on punishment, so choose an option that seems reasonable for both parties.

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  Sit the child down and briefly explain to her the reason of the confrontation. Stay calm and do not act aggressively or raise your voice. Keep in mind that the confrontation can be much more embarrassing and uncomfortable for the child, so a calm, nonthreatening setting is necessary.

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  Ask the child about her history with alcohol and any other drugs. Tell her that the punishment will not worsen if she has consumed alcohol at other times in the past. While she may not be entirely honest, it's important to learn as much information as possible to determine whether there may be a potential problem.

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  Explain your reasoning for the conversation. Let her know it's solely out of love and concern for her general safety. If addiction of any substance is prevalent in the family, inform her that she has an increased chance of alcoholism -- a disease that can destroy nearly all aspects of life.

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  Set new rules for the child. For example, ask to speak to parents each time she stays at a friend's home for the night so you know she is under supervision. An earlier curfew and restrictions on vehicle use can also help to prevent future drinking.