Development Stages in a Four Year Old Child

Four-year-old toddlers go through a vast developmental phase. Your child may have an increased sense of curiosity, as she looks to you for guidance. All children develop at their own pace. If one child develops faster than yours, this doesn't mean that your child is behind or that she won't reach her milestones. Yet, if you have concerns regarding your child's development, consult your pediatrician.

Language Development

• Four-year-olds have an extensive vocabulary.

  Your 4-year-old child may have a vocabulary that includes up to 2,000 words, according to The University of Arizona. She might speak in complete sentences, as well as understand simple questions. You can have an understandable conversation with your child at this age. A 4-year-old may use prepositions such as under and beside. Some 4-year-old toddlers can count to four, sing simple songs and talk to imaginary playmates.

Motor Skills

• Four-year-olds go through rapid growth, allowing for agility.

  Your child might be able to stand on one foot, notes MayoClinic.com. Children at this age can throw and kick a ball forward and can possibly catch a ball. They can climb stairs without assistance, as well as walk forward and backwards. Some 4-year-old toddlers may undress and dress themselves, walk on their tiptoes, skip and jump. They can use a fork and spoon effectively and possibly use safety scissors to cut paper. If your 4-year-old has a younger sibling, rivalry may develop to gain your attention.

Social Skills

• A 4-year-old can develop a friendship.

  According to Education.com, children at 4 years begin to forge relationships with other children. Your child may understand when someone cries and try to comfort the person. A 4-year-old loves to tell secrets and talk. While your child may have a best friend, he doesn't understand loyalty. One minute he may like his friend, and then change his mind if his friend does something disagreeable.

Health Watch

• Look for signs of health issues.

  Some children can have developmental delays. Warning signs include not being able to hold a crayon like a pencil or not being able to scribble. If your child becomes antisocial, doesn't want to play with others or easily becomes angry without provocation, or loses the ability to say sentences, check for signs of autism. Other health-watch signs include becoming overly clingy, not responding to family or resistance to potty training.