How to Find Help for Kids Starting Fires

Kids start fires for a variety of reasons. Sometimes it's out of curiosity or boredom, other times it's a red flag for serious anxiety, anger or abuse problems at home. You must not assume that if a child has been punished or scolded for setting fires, that the problem is solved and will disappear. This is an extremely serious and dangerous habit that you must address quickly and adequately.

Instructions

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  Talk to your child in simple language about the dangers of setting fires and their consequences. Talk to your child in plain terms about the harm that could come to him or others. Ask your child why he starts fires.

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  Talk to your child's doctor, school counselor or a child psychologist. Explain the problem that this kid is experiencing and your thoughts about it. Make an appointment for the child.

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  Take the child to meet with the doctor, counselor or psychologist. Allow the child to speak privately with this person.

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  Take the child to the waiting room of the doctor or counselor's office, and tell her to wait there while you speak with the doctor.

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  Listen to the professional feedback. Follow any advice that the professional gives you, including if she thinks your child needs to schedule sessions with her regularly.

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  Call you local fire station, and find out if they have any programs that present the dangers of fire-starting. Such programs often can effectively scare kids out of starting fires.