How to Help Someone With Bipolar Who Won't Get Counseling

Bipolar disorder, otherwise known as manic-depression, can be a debilitating illness if left untreated. The mood swings can be severe, and sometimes last for weeks or even months. It is important for someone who is experiencing bipolar symptoms to seek medical attention immediately. Unfortunately, not everybody who is suffering from bipolar disorder will be willing to talk to a professional. If that is the case with your loved one, here are some things you can do to help.

Things You'll Need

• Support group
• Contact information for a health professional
• Emergency phone numbers

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Instructions

• 1

  It is important that you educate yourself about the illness. Learn the warning signs, symptoms, causes and treatments.

• 2

  Talk to your loved one about your feelings and concerns. Let him know that you understand this is an illness, just like heart disease or diabetes, and it is out of his control. Tell him the importance of seeing a professional and encourage him to do so. Let him know that his illness can worsen if left untreated, and that it is possible to feel better.

• 3

  Take care of yourself. Do not let the needs of the bipolar person take precedent over your own. You can only help others if you have already taken care of your own needs. Find a support group where you can talk to other family members or friends of people suffering from bipolar disorder.

• 4

  Be prepared for a crisis. If you have reason to believe the sufferer will harm himself or others, take him to the hospital or call 911. Have numbers ready for a mental health professional, family members and other loved ones who can help.

• 5

  Be patient and understanding. Do not take his actions personally. Understand his limits and your own limits. Offer emotional support, and try to create a stress-free environment.