Loving Someone With Bipolar Disorder

All relationships require work and even more so when one person has bipolar disorder (manic depressive disorder). While it can be very frustrating for the patient, the people who love them find it heartbreaking.

Be Flexible

• If you love a bipolar person, your world could be turned upside down in moments. You have to learn to ride the waves of the ups and downs like a pro surfer.

Don't Take it Personally

• The bipolar person will sometimes say awful things, but understand that is the illness talking, not the person. Don't take it personally, it isn't about you.

Give Them Space When They Need It

• Often, when a bipolar person begins feeling down, they just need space. Trying to help by "staying close" and "cheering them up," will likely make matters worse.

Love Them Just as They Are

• When you love a bipolar person, you have to accept them and love them just as they are. Know that you can not "cure" them or "fix" them. What you can do is just love them unconditionally.

Take Time for Yourself

• When you love a bipolar person, you face their illness on a daily basis. It can be wearing. Don't neglect your own needs.

Know When to Seek Outside Help

• Sometimes, loving a bipolar person is just too much for you to handle. Don't ever be afraid to seek outside help. Get counseling if you need it.