How to Help Bulimic People

Bulimia nervosa is an eating disorder. It differs from anorexia nervosa in that people who suffering bulimia nervosa are often of a normal weight, whereas one of the most obvious features of anorexia nervosa is weight loss. Eating disorders are quite difficult to treat. The outcome for both anorexia and bulimia sufferers is potentially very serious, even fatal. However, people do recover and learn better ways of coping with stress. People with bulimia tend to have a distorted relationship with food. It takes time and patience to help the person to normalize this relationship.

Instructions

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  Learn as much as you can about the condition. It may not be easy to recognize, as the sufferer is often secretive and may not look particularly thin. You may notice that she goes to the bathroom often after eating, and you may notice the smell of vomit. She may buy laxatives and use these to purge herself. Food may disappear, and you may notice more empty wrappings than you would expect to find. If sufferer may approach you to talk about her problem, welcome the conversation.

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  Approach the person if you suspect that she has bulimia, but she has not told you on her own. Expect an angry, defensive denial. The bulimia sufferer has developed a distorted thinking pattern, and though part of her may long to be well, she will also be terrified of losing control. She may fear what will happen if other people are aware of her problem. Be very tactful in your approach, avoiding commenting on her weight or appearance. The National Eating Disorders Association warns that extremes of emotions, attitude and behavior often accompany an eating disorder.

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  Suggest strongly that she get professional help. Her physician may be a good starting point,and he may refer her to a psychotherapist. It is better if she realizes herself that she needs help and goes voluntarily. This will make her more receptive to treatment. However, in extreme cases, for instance, if she undergoes dramatic weight loss or is binging and vomiting frequently, she may need compulsory treatment. In this case, call her physician.