Pain of Living With a Narcissist

Narcissism, according to the American Psychiatric Association, is a "pervasive pattern of grandiosity, need for admiration and lack of empathy." Narcissism is a clinical mental health disorder, though some people have narcissistic tendencies without a clinical diagnosis. Either way, living with a narcissist can be difficult and emotionally painful.

Empathy

• Narcissists have a seeming lack of ability to consider the emotional needs of others, including their intimate partners. Typically, they are more concerned with receiving constant attention then giving it. This can leave a partner feeling alone, isolated and unheard.

Communication

• Narcissists want to be the center of attention at all times. They crave constant admiration, whether from an intimate partner or a crowd of anonymous people. Therefore, communicating with a narcissist can be difficult as his preference will always be to have the conversation focused on him and his actions.

Decisions

• Living with a narcissist may also impact how you make decisions in your household. A narcissist's lack of empathy and need for constant admiration means she will make decisions best suited to her own needs and desires. These decisions may not be best for the household as a whole.