How do I Deal Effectively With a Pathological Liar?

A pathological liar is a person who continuously tell lies. It is not out of maliciousness, and in many instances, the pathological liar does not realize he is lying. When faced with a situation where you must interact with a pathological liar, it is important to know how to effectively handle the person and the situation.

Instructions

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  Calm down before confronting a pathological liar. Although it can be frustrating, it's important to understand a pathological liar has a compulsion to lie.

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  Tell the person what you understand to be true whenever the person tells a lie. Instead of shouting, "You are lying," say something like, "I thought this was what happened."

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  Research counselors in the area that can help the pathological liar. Make a list of the counselors.

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  Sit the person down and tell him that you believe he shows the signs of a pathological liar. Express that you want to help, not judge. Hand the person the list of counselors, but do not press the matter further. It has to be the person's choice to seek help.