Narcissistic Definition

Narcissistic is word mental-health experts use to describe extreme (pathological) self-admiration. The word is taken from a Greek myth in which a youth named Narcissus catches his own reflection in a pool of water and falls in love with it. Although the end of the tale varies, Narcissus's infatuation with himself leads to his demise.

Although those with narcissistic personality disorder seem to have an overblown sense of superiority, this attitude typically hides insecurity and low self-esteem. In any case, the disorder can create many problems in the sufferer's personal and professional lives.

Definition

• Merriam-Webster's Medical Dictionary defines narcissistic personality disorder as "characterized especially by an exaggerated sense of self-importance, persistent need for admiration, lack of empathy for others, excessive pride in achievements, and snobbish, disdainful, or patronizing attitudes."

  People with this disorder are characterized as being self-absorbed; they tend to think they are better than everyone else. They brag about their accomplishments and feel entitled to special treatment. They think nothing of taking advantage of others to get what they want or feel they deserve. They may be unemotional and uninterested in the lives of others or they may exhibit extreme jealousy towards others.

Causes

• Many mental health professionals suspect that this personality disorder is the result of parenting extremes, although there is conclusive evidence of this. Overly pampering a child or pushing others to recognize a child as special or important could be a root cause. Another cause could be the result of neglect or an abusive upbringing. Narcissistic personality disorder is usually recognized in early adulthood.

Diagnosis

• A doctor will provide a complete physical exam to rule out any medical problems that may be leading to eradicate behavior. If the patient is physically in good condition, he is referred to a psychiatrist. These mental health doctors have the assessment tools necessary to evaluate you for a personality disorder.

Complications

• Although individuals may seem extremely confident, even arrogant, a narcissistic personality disorder masks underlying issues with self-esteem. An inflated sense of importance and entitlement can make it hard to develop healthy relationships with others. Some individuals may even turn to drugs and alcohol as a way to cope with the fact that they are so sensitive and easily get their feelings hurt, a fact they hide from others.

Treatment

• Teenagers often exhibit narcissistic traits like seeking attention and admiration, but they also usually outgrow these traits by early adulthood. Adults exhibiting narcissistic personality disorder must undergo psychotherapy or cognitive behavioral therapy to learn to interact with others in a more positive way. Therapy also centers on building self-esteem. In some cases medication that addresses anxiety or depression may also be prescribed.