Behavior Problems in Kids

Behavior problems can range from devastating to having only a minor impact on the daily life of a child. The intensity and frequency of such behaviors are due to a variety of criteria that can include genetics, environment, nutrition, physical health and psychological health.



If concerned about possible implications of behavior problems in children, it is important to leave the diagnosis to health and psychological professionals. Seek treatment for those children displaying behavior problems, but address these troubles with a careful and considered approach that takes the concerns and feelings of the child into account.

Behavior Problem Indicators

• Behavior problems come in a variety of types depending upon age and environment. There is, however, a cluster of behaviors or indicators of the formation of future behavior problems. These include, but are not limited to, verbal or physical aggression against themselves or others, or small animals and pets; destruction of property; theft; dishonesty; decrease in attention at school, or decline in grades and attendance; dangerous lifestyle choices and belligerence and ostentation.

Disruptive Behavior Problems

• Disruptive disorders are those that are characterized by acting out, whether verbally or physically, and can include deviant sexual activity, smoking and early alcohol and drug use. Seeking immediate psychological and therapeutic treatment for such activities is recommended. Such behaviors should not be met with rancor or aggression, but instead compassion and an open heart. Disruptive problems often stem from abuse, stressful situations at home or at school or a pattern of reinforcement that has encouraged such behaviors.

Temper Tantrums

• Temper Tantrums are most common in younger children, though they can be seen in preteens as well as teenagers. While temper tantrums seem harmless enough, a pattern of reinforcing such behaviors can increase the duration and severity of tantrums. These kinds of outbursts are meant to draw attention to the child, but can quite often mask underlying psychological issues that can range from self-image issues to abuse or neglect.

Shyness and Fear

• Shyness and fear can start in young children and extend into early adulthood, and often into adulthood as well. Both types of behavior stem from internalized anxiety that can be drawn from a variety of life experiences. While these may seem like minor behavior issues, they can become paralyzing if continually reinforced, resulting in isolation and depression in children and adults.