Narcissistic Personality Characteristics

Narcissism is an exaggerated sense of self-importance named for the mythological figure Narcissus, who fell in love with own reflection. Individuals with narcissistic personality disorder are not in love with themselves but require excessive attention and admiration to cope with their insecurities.

Basics

• A personality disorder is a mental illness that impairs an individual's ability to accurately process information about other people and situations and respond accordingly. Ten separate personality disorders are recognized by mental health professionals.

Features

• Individuals with narcissistic personality disorder have unrealistic ideas about their abilities and importance and need to be recognized for them, despite an inability to do the same for others.

Effects

• Such people are so self-absorbed that they often find it difficult to function in relationships and maintain employment. If their need for attention and appreciation is not met, they may respond with inappropriate anger.

Treatment

• Narcissistic personality disorder can be very difficult to treat because narcissists rarely seek help. Psychotherapists teach narcissists to identify distorted thoughts and alter negative behaviors.

Misconceptions

• Contrary to popular belief, true narcissism is not simple vanity. Individuals with narcissistic personality disorder have very low self-esteem and a negative self-image. Their behavior reflects a need to compensate for deep feelings of inadequacy.