How to Find Love and Happiness

How to find love and happiness? For most people, that is the million dollar life question? A life without love and happiness is a life devoid of two of the most precious human experiences. Being in love and happy makes like worthwhile and vibrant. Read on for helpful tips on how you can find love and happiness and increase your enjoyment and satisfaction of life.

Things You'll Need

• Understanding
• Awareness
• Introspection
• Desire

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Instructions

• 1

  ACCEPT YOURSELF AS A FHB

  To find love and happiness, you must first accept yourself as a FHB -- a fallable human being. Understand and accept that you are not perfect, that perfection does not exist, and that by demanding perfection from yourself you will sabotage your self-esteem and happiness. To find love and happiness, you must view and wholeheartedly accept yourself as a fallable human being!

• 2

  ACCEPT OTHERS AS FHB'S

  Along with accepting yourself as a FHB, you must accept others as being FHB's in order to find love and happiness. We are imperfect beings in an imperfect world. Expecting other people to be perfect will not lead you to satisfying relationships and will impede your goal of finding love and happiness.

• 3

  PREFER INSTEAD OF DEMAND

  Much of human unhappiness is caused when we elevate our basic preferences and desires into DEMANDS that MUST be met -- or else! When these demands are not met, we become frustrated, anxious, unhappy, and miserable. To find love and happiness, and to protect and strengthen your self-esteem, you must refrain from elevating basic preferences and desires into DEMANDS that must be met at all costs!

• 4

  DON'T COMPROMISE

  Always stay true to your core beliefs and values to find love and happiness. Never abandon your sense of right and wrong simply to try and gain favor with people or to fill a void in your life. Staying true to yourself will enhance your self-confidence and self-esteem and will help you to find love and happiness. Staying true to yourself will attract quality people -- which will increase your happiness and self-satisfaction.

• 5

  BE GOOD TO YOURSELF

  To find love and happiness, be good to yourself. Eat good food. Get plenty of rest and exercise. Take time to de-stress and unwind regularly. Watch the sunset. Listen to the birds chirp. Being good to yourself will make you more vibrant and attractive. You will be healthier, happier, and more self-confident. Being good to yourself will increase your chances of success and finding true love and happiness.