How Do I Know If I Need Anger Management?
Everyone experiences anger; the problem is knowing whether you handle it properly or let anger handle you. Someone who is angry a lot of the time may wonder if he needs anger management therapy to help him control it. As with many problems, admitting you have a problem is the first step. If you show many of the signs below, you should consider looking into anger management.-
Quick Flare Ups
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Quick flare ups of rage are typical indicators of a lack of control. If the smallest things bother you tremendously and cause you to become extremely angry, there is a possibility that anger management will help you control the anger and its triggers.
Violence
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Any sort of violent reaction when angry--punching, kicking an inanimate object or attacking someone--definitely means that you need to manage your anger and should find someone qualified to help you.
Physical Signs
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If you get angry and experience extreme shaking, pounding headache or stomach churning, then you are not handling anger well and could benefit from anger management techniques.
Cravings
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If getting angry triggers a need to drink or smoke something, then you probably are trying to relax the anger away. However, this usually only intensifies the anger.
Verbal Abuse
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When you are in a rage, you may feel the need to strike out, not physically but verbally, and engage in damaging name-calling or cursing at another person.
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