What Type of Abuse Is Most Often Reported in the Elderly?

Elder abuse is a serious problem in our nation today. Many different forms exist, such as physical, mental, emotional, and even sexual abuse. But the most commonly reported form of abuse is not an act of commission, but of omission: neglect. Neglect means failing to attend to the basic requirements a senior needs to stay alive. This can include food, water, shelter and medical attention.

Why

• A great deal of research has gone into why so many of our nation's seniors are neglected. Although there is no single definitive answer, many factors affect this form of abuse. Those in charge of caring for aging relatives are often caught between multiple demands, such as caring for their children at the same time as their parents, job responsibilities, or coping with their own health issues. Others are simply ignorant or in denial as to what their elders need, and fail to plan accordingly for their care.

Signs

• The signs of neglect are important to recognize if you think a senior you love is in danger. Dehydration, malnutrition and frequent infections all point to the fact that seniors are not getting the food, water and medical attention they need. Severe symptoms, such as being found untoileted at frequent intervals, need to be addressed immediately. In addition, be careful to provide supervision if a senior has a debilitating illness that affects cognition, such as Alzheimer's disease. Forgetting to turn off a stove or lock the door could lead to safety issues for the senior.

Non-Verbal

• You may be wondering what to do if you fear a senior is being neglected, but doesn't exhibit any of the classic signs. He may be unable to verbalize what is happening to him due to mental or medical conditions. Watch for non-verbal signs, such as crying, whimpering or trying to get you to stay. This person may be trying to tell you, without words, that he fears what will happen after you leave.

Consequences

• If someone is legally obligated to provide adequate care for a senior (such as a guardian or nursing home) and fails to do so, it isn't just wrong --- it's a crime. It can be prosecuted in court, and the person (or people) responsible can be fined or even put in jail. Before you consider taking legal action, make sure that your senior has been placed in the appropriate care. Then consider speaking to an attorney who specializes in elderly issues to proceed with your case.