How to Get Help to Leave an Abusive Husband

Dealing with an abusive husband is generally not an easy task for any woman to deal with. However, this is not an environment you have to stay in and no woman or person deserves to be abused by a spouse. It's important to remember when in this situation that you do not have to do this alone. You can get help when you want to leave an abusive husband, which makes it more likely that you will be able to get your life back on track.

Instructions

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  Get protection from the law. If you are a victim of violence, then you can press charges against your spouse. The law can help protect you in this situation and help you get a restraining order if necessary.

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  Seek medical attention if your spouse hurts you physically. Go to the hospital and document all of your injuries. Ask that the police be called and press charges against your husband. This will make leaving permanently an easier process.

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  Ask someone you trust to hold onto things you will need after you leave your abusive husband during the planning phase. This might include clothing, spare keys, extra prescriptions and cash. This person can then provide you with these essential items after you leave your abusive husband.

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  Stay with a trusted friend or family member after leaving your abusive husband. Make sure this person can provide you with support and shelter until you can get a place of your own. It's also helpful to have several people in the house so you're not left there alone where your abusive husband can confront you. If possible, stay with a friend whose location isn't known to your husband.

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  Go to a local shelter in your area. When leaving an abusive husband, you might have nowhere to stay. Shelters for abused and battered women are located across the country. They will give you a place to stay, as well as food, legal assistance and counseling, when leaving your abusive spouse.