What can you do if your husband says he not feel now after a hysterectomy?

It's important to remember that hysterectomy can have a significant impact on a woman's physical and emotional health, including her sexual desire and arousal. It is not uncommon for women to experience decreased libido or difficulty reaching orgasm after a hysterectomy. Additionally some surgeries are radical with taking your cervix and/or both ovaries. If you think this is the case discuss this with his healthcare professional to see if hormone replacement therapy or other treatment options may be helpful.

Here are some tips on how to support your husband during this time:

1. Communicate openly and honestly with each other. Let him know how you're feeling and what you're expecting. Be patient and understanding as he adjusts to his new reality.

2. Seek professional help if needed. If you're struggling to cope with your husband's changes, don't hesitate to seek help from a therapist or counselor. They can provide support and guidance as you navigate this difficult time.

3. Be understanding and patient. It may take time for your husband to feel "normal" again. Don't pressure him to have sex before he's ready.

4. Explore other ways to connect physically. There are many ways to express love and intimacy without having sex. Find other ways to touch, hold, and kiss each other.

5. Be supportive and encouraging. Let your husband know that you're there for him and that you love him. This will help him to feel more confident and secure in your relationship.